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U.K Helplines


If you think your life is in imediate danger phone the police, i can't stress this enough but i know through my own experience thisis not able to happen in all cases so here are the  helplines who can offer assistance.  

Womans Aid 
 This organisation provides information and refuges for women/women who are suffering from all forms of Domestic Violence/Domestic Abuse and Coercive control. they provide a good listening ear and will help you through what your going through with the correct support and help you rebuild your life.
https://www.womensaid.org.uk/
 mens services   https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/support-for-male-survivors/
Telephone 0808 2000 247

Refuge UK
This is another charity which provides information and support to those going through and escaping from Domestic Abuse.
https://www.refuge.org.uk/
mens service https://www.refuge.org.uk/get-help-now/help-for-men/
0808 2000 247

Mens advice line 
This is a specialised help line for men who are going through Domestic Abuse.
http://www.mensadviceline.org.uk/
 0808 801 0327

Mankind Initiative Provides help for men to escape from domestic violence and provides information.
https://www.mankind.org.uk/help-for-victims/types-of-domestic-abuse/
tlephone 01823 334244

Galop Specialises in helping people with in the LGBT community whether your going through hate crime, Sexual violence or Domestic Abuse.
http://www.galop.org.uk/domesticabuse/
Telephone 020 7704 2040
Freephone 0800 999 5428


Valley House
They specialise in support and information for both men and women as well as various other schemes,  The staff at Valley house are friendly like with all other charities dealing with this subject non judgemental and wiling to listen. 
https://valleyhouse.org.uk/
02476 266 280

**** DON'T FORGET IF YOU ARE FLEEING DOMESTIC ABUSE/DOMESTIC VIOLENCE/COERCIVE CONTROL THEN THE COUNCIL HAS A LEGAL RIGHT TO REHOUSE YOU....ths was something i didn't know until the day i left. 
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